Girls are very simple but at the same time complicated. Hormones are a major driving force in our daily lives.
Progesterone and oestrogen, the sex hormones, are the major players in the game. At their high levels, many have Premenstrual syndrome(PMS).
Before a girl gets her period, she may be a bit different from her normal self. One day she loves you dearly and the next day she wants a break up. Brother, don’t worry, those are just hormones at their game.
Oestrogen and progesterone levels are high before menstruation begins. It has not been proven that they are the major cause of mood swings, but I highly suspect they are involved.
Before the D-day, some girls experience 3 or more of the following signs :
- Mood swings
- Abdominal pain
- Loss of appetite
- High sexual drive
- Oily skin and pimples
- Backache or headache
- Trouble sleeping
- Tender breasts
- Food cravings
- The need to be desired
- Crying spells
- Trouble with concentration
At this time minor problems become a mountain and any reason to accuse you of cheating is sought after thoroughly.
The girl may also want to be hugged and at the same time not to be touched. Now that’s a tricky situation.
Others dive into a feeding frenzy. Food cravings sore high and you are made the errand boy, dropping food each time the demand rises.
Sexual drive is a hard topic. At this time every guy is attractive even the not so attractive ones (those who are single). If the girl doesn’t control herself she may end up a mother.
Some may ask you deep questions like “Do you love me? Do you find me attractive? Have you ever cheated on me? Do you have a side dish? “….etc. Just answer them accordingly or risk World War Three.
When the moment finally comes and members of parliament are in session, things change for the best or worst.
Some girls become loving and want you close while others want to be a million miles away.
At this time be a darling. Bring her sanitary towels if she needs them, prepare a hot bottle for her cramps, make her snacks as she grumbles in bed and most of all be prepared to take in what she may throw at you.
Love is acceptance, if she turns into a beast in the special day of the month, be ready. If she is an angel, then you are lucky.